it was a long awaited day. divorce day. if you don't "know" me, the comment may seem inappropriate but it was a way of erecting a big neon sign that says "It's over. That part of my life is behind me now". So there. That's it. I'll save the 'what went wrong' drama for another blog - maybe. It's over. The drama continues but I am officially a divorcee. The boys and I are all adjusting well. We've had a few bumps in the road but that is expected. We deserve to be happy and safe and now....we are!